Question #3: What is your worst dinner date ever?
There’s a couple of reasons why I added this to my list of what to ask a girl on Tinder. The first one is, if she tells you her worst dinner date ever, then you know that she’s capable of meeting up with people. There’s a whole lot of women online who are just in the game for the validation and swiping but don’t necessarily want to meet up. So now you know that she does meet them.
Secondly, and this is the best part. If she tells you her worst dinner date ever, and she has this scenario in her mind. Whatever date she’ll have with you, it’s always going to be infinitely better.
That’s why this question is extra great when you are actually out on a date with someone. Ask them for their worst date, and they’ll realize, “Wow, this guy is way cooler.”
Question #4: What is something you would love to do but don’t dare to?
The reason I like this question is that when someone answers this, they’re telling you something very personal. Usually, it will be something with a phobia they have, a mega fear, or something that traumatized them in their youth and now they’re talking about it to you.
If you want to know what to ask a girl on Tinder and make her open to you faster, ask this question. It’s way more personal again than all the boring questions like, “what’s your favorite foods?” If someone tells you that their favorite food is a pineapple pizza, it’s debatable whether or not they’re even human because they want pineapple on their pizza. Again, this is not as deep as someone telling you one of their biggest fears.
So assuming she says she would love to go bungee jumping, but she has a fear of heights. Well, now, first of all, you’re having a conversation, it’s something. This is a powerful topic because it’s about fear and all these primitive feelings. Secondly, you know not to go bungee jumping with her on the first date.
